If this is your first Valentine's Day, and you recently became a couple, don't stress or let the pressure ruin your day. There are plenty of things you can do with your new beau that doesn't scream serious relationship. Here are a few ideas to make your partner feel loved.
1. Send a good morning text
Begin the day by sending your new partner a good morning text. It'll help them start the day off feeling loved while also putting them in a great mood for the rest of the day.
2. Do what other couples aren't doing
The best way for things to not get awkward is to not put yourself in competition with other couples. If you're around long-term relationships, you'll start comparing yourself. You don't want her looking at two people that have been together for 5 years and wonder why they get along better than you do. Go to unexpected places and restaurants that don't offer Valentine's Day prix-fixe.
3. Netflix and chill
Netflix and chill can mean many things, but in this situation, it means watch Netflix (or your favorite movie streaming service) and relax. It's the perfect excuse to get close and learn a little about each other. It's also low-pressure, because it's not a Valetine's-oriented activity.
4. Visit an arcade
There's nothing that says teamwork like video games. Couples that play together stay together. They're fun yet competitive. Because they're not stereotypically linked with romance, it'll be easier to forget the weight surrounding the holiday.
5. Go to the gym
Are you both gym rats? Skip the carbs and work out together. It's an informal way to connect and gives you the opportunity to show off your muscles or tight abs. Not to mention that it's probably what you'd be doing if you weren't going out for Valentine's Day anyway.
6. Take a photography class
Rent a digital SLR and learn a few things about using it. Local colleges offer non-credit, one-day classes with professional photographers. You might even pick up a new hobby in the process.
We know it can be tricky and confusing preparing a night for a new girlfriend or boyfriend, but at the end of the day, all that matters is that you plan something fun -- something that brings a smile to your special someone's face. Just pick something out you think your partner will enjoy and use that as your inspiration for the most memorable Valentine's date ever!