We all go through chaos and confusion at some point in life when we fail to understand what's the right thing to do. There are times when we need good advice, but we don’t know whom to trust. We want to be left alone but also want someone to be there by our side. In such difficult times, it’s tricky to make the right decisions. The sentiments inside our heart makes it difficult for us to keep an open mind.
If you are trying to process what’s happening with you and can’t seem to come up with any concrete solution, here are some quotes on words of wisdom about life that might help you get clarity of thoughts.
1. "The naked truth is always better than the best-dressed lie."
Most people choose to lie and pretend in front of others because they think telling the truth might not work in their favor. This might be true in some cases but when it comes to your loved ones, it’s better to be honest and tell them the truth.
No matter how harsh and ugly the truth is, it’s always better than a flattering lie. You may hurt or upset someone with the truth but it’s even worse when your lie is caught. Moreover, when the love is pure, honesty and transparency are even more important to keep the trust in the relationship intact.
2. “We are attracted to another person at a soul level not because that person is our unique complement, but because by being with that individual, we are somehow provided with an impetus to become whole ourselves.” - Edgar Cayce
When you really like someone and see them as your life partner, you’ll feel a connection with them. It’s not because they complete you or your life is incomplete without them in it. When someone becomes your soulmate, you feel complete within yourself. They encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
A true soulmate will teach you how to appreciate your own capabilities and never undermine your potential. Whenever you are in doubt, they will tell you how amazing you are. They will lift your mood and make you see all the good things in you. So, if you want a relationship, don’t look for a savior. Look for someone who values you for who you are.
3. “People only change for two reasons: Someone opened your mind or someone broke your heart.”
Usually, we don’t want our loved ones to change but sometimes it’s necessary and is the only way to go on in life. Some people have a big impact on our lives. And when they leave, we are not the same person anymore. This change is brought by our experiences. Some experiences are heartbreaking while some open our mind. Either way, we learn something out of it, and it reflects in our behavior.
So, when notice a change in someone, don’t be quick to judge them. They might have experienced a life altering incident that you know nothing about. They might be going through a tough time. The least you can do is be considerate and let them be.
4. "Don't personalize or internalize other people's behavior. What they do is not a reflection of you. Their actions represent them and where they are in their growth." - Idil Ahmed
Everyone has an opinion on everything, and they aren’t necessarily right all the time. Taking every opinion seriously can be harmful for your mental health. You don’t need to focus on what others think about you. People’s thoughts and actions reveal their own personality. It’s not a revelation of who you are.
If you worry about other’s perception, you won’t be able to live your life the way you want. Make peace with the fact that you can’t please everyone in your life. It’s better not to entertain anybody else’s opinions and do whatever you want. The more attention you pay to what they have to say the more difficult it will become for you to stay happy in life.
5. “The only creatures that are evolved enough to convey pure love are dogs and infants.” - Johnny Depp
We all need some pure and unconditional love in this world. Whether it’s our family or friends, we expect to be loved by them, especially in tough times. However, expectations don’t always get fulfilled. We get disappointment and heartbreak in return. This is because nobody is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes and it’s not easy to love someone unconditionally.
We often have conflicted interests and ego issues acting as obstacles. The only two creatures that can give pure love are dogs and infants. They never expect anything in return of love. Only they understand the true meaning of love and selflessness. For them the concept of ego or selfish behavior doesn’t exist.
6. “A river cuts through a rock, not because of its power, but its persistence.”
It doesn’t always take physical power to reach where you want. Your power of will, determination, and consistent efforts are equally important. A river doesn’t find its path in a single day. It continuously flows in the same direction and ultimately cuts through the rocks on its way to reach its destination.
You may have a goal that seems impossible to accomplish but you need to be persistent and give your 100%. Don’t give up without trying. Keep trying till you see any progress. Be consistent with your approach. Have patience and wait for the results. When the right time comes, your hard work will bear the fruits of success.
7. “I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts.” - Robert Fulghum
It’s alright to gain knowledge and follow your idols when you’re trying to excel in your field but that doesn’t mean you cannot bring something new to the table. There lies more power in your imaginative mind than what you have learned, and your dreams are more valuable than the facts.
With self-belief and hard work, you can also become someone’s idol one day. You can create a new chapter in History if you have the zeal to go beyond your learning. So, don’t limit yourself and explore your potential. Maybe someday you can become the new leader that others will follow.
8. “If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So, if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. It is about appreciation.” - Osho
When you see a flower and notice its beauty, don’t be adamant to keep it with you. You need to leave it there for the flower to remain beautiful. If you pick it up, it will die. The same applies to love. Love is not about claiming what’s yours. It’s about acknowledging the value of someone you love, appreciating them, and letting them know how much they mean to you.
Falling for someone doesn’t mean that you have the right to keep that person in your life. You can only express your feelings and give your best to make them happy. You don’t get to decide whom they want to be with. You just let them be. If you truly love someone, you’ll know how to be selfless and respect the other person’s decision instead of forcing your emotions on them.
9. “The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.” - Jennifer Anniston
Love is usually accompanied by pain. The more you love someone, greater will be the chances of you getting hurt. This is because every little thing related to them will affect you. You won’t be able to see them go through any kind of trouble. However, the ability to love also allows you to bear pain to a great extent.
If you love someone with all your heart and soul, you learn how to absorb the pain and get used to the feeling. You know how to process it and face all kinds of challenges posed by your life. This will allow you to be mentally ready for tough situations in life. Eventually, you’ll get tough and won’t break down easily.
10. “Touch a thistle timidly, and it pricks you; grasp it boldly, and its spines crumble.” - Admiral William Halsey Jr.
When you touch a thistle softly, its thorns will prick your fingers and you’ll get hurt. However, if you grab it strongly, you will be able to crush the thorny flower and it will lose its ability to hurt you. The same goes with life. No matter how dangerous a situation looks, don’t let your fear grow bigger than your power of will.
If you are strong enough to face every challenge with all your strength, you’ll be able to overcome it. Sometimes, being too soft can be hurtful. You need to be so tough that even the strongest opponent loses their confidence to win.