Most men are clueless when it comes to women. Their idea of impressing a woman involves grand gestures that usually fall flat, or worse, end up embarrassing her. Ask a man what a woman likes, and he has no idea.
We're here to help! Try this list of simple things that women will find irresistible.
1. Place your hand on the small of her back
When a man puts his hands on the small of a woman's back, he is subtly implying his desire for her. Plus, it's chivalrous! Be careful, however, that she welcomes the affection. Also, be careful you don't mistakenly put your hand on her upper back, because that conveys friendliness more than desire.
The secret to making this one work? Timing.
2. Roll your buttoned-up shirt to the elbows
When a man rolls the sleeves of his button shirt all the way to the elbows, most women are immediately turned on. Rolling up your sleeves indicates that you are willing to get your hands dirty. It also shows off your forearms. Employ this move after work or on a date. She won't be able to stop thinking about your arms engulfing her.
3. Look at her with a soft gaze
Guys think that women find an assertive or dominant man irresistible. But being overly confident can come off as being a douchebag if you are not careful.
Why not melt her heart with a gentler approach? When she is sad or hurt, show compassion. Give her a soft look that says you care; she'll remember it for a long time.
4. Wear a nice sweater instead of a hoodie
A man who can pull off a nice sweater will hold the attention of his woman for as long as he wears it. Sweaters convey that you are cuddly, warm and protective all at once. Also, it shows that you care more about fashion. Go buy a sweater ASAP!
5. Give her your coat if she looks cold
Picture this... You and your lady are out on a chilly night. She forgot to bring her jacket. What do you do? Offer her your own obviously! Take off your coat and wrap it around her frame gently. She wont stop smiling for the rest of night. But don't go overboard, like kissing her while placing it on her shoulders. Read the vibe. Chivalry is all about making her feel good and comfortable.
6. Fix something at her home or do some chores
Women love a man who is handy. Fix something for her while she hovers nearby. Ask her if there is any projects she's been putting off or home improvement issues she needs help with. Not only will you be her hero, but she won't be able to forget about you the next time she uses whatever item you worked on.
Women love men who pick up their weight around the house -- doing dishes, taking out the garbage, picking up her dry cleaning. Your lady gets a little giddy every time you do those things.
7. Run your fingers through her hair
When a man runs his fingers through his hair, it can give even the most stoic of women pause. It's sexy! Just don't go around running your fingers through your hair all day, though. This gesture works best when performed without forethought. Plus, touching your hair transfers oils from your hands to the strands and can make it look unwashed and greasy.
8. Listen actively to what she tells you
Most men come home, throw their shoes in the corner and turn on the IPL match. This an idiotic move if ever there was any. What's worse is if you do it on a daily basis.
Instead, go home and have a conversation with your partner about their day. Listen rather than talk. Nothing is more attractive to a woman then a partner who is attentive to her needs. Extra points if you remember something and bring it up later!
9. Wrap her up in your arms
When you wrap your arms around a woman, it makes her feel safe and loved at the same time. Two of humanity's most basic urges are being protected and being loved, and they're fulfilled in one action.
10. Read a book to show off your intelligence
Imagine this you are sitting in a subway engrossed in your favorite book, absentmindedly chewing your fingernails. You might think there's nothing special about this tableau, but onlooking women will swoon over how smart you look. They won’t be able to get the image out of her head all day.
11. Cook her a delicious dinner
Even the densest of men can see the appeal here. There are a few things women have been known to love more than a man who can cook. So, on your next weekend together, fire up the grill and cook for her. She'll definetly fall in love with you again!
12. Be passionate about something
When you are passionate about something, even something as mundane as fly fishing, your lady will take notice. She'll hear it in your voice and see it in your eyes. Passion has a way of making you come alive, and that's what love is! Men think that women expect lots of attention, but that's not true. She likes to see you focusing on things you like to do.
Here's a start with some of the things you can do to make your lady look up and take notice. There are plenty more of them that you can find out for yourself. What does your woman find super hot? Tell us in the comments below!