If you're someone who likes a guy in charge, then you would probably be dating an alpha male. Being attracted to the people who ooze the power and the authority isn't a common thing. Here are a few things to remember if you're dating an alpha male.
Let's get started by defining a true alpha (not a pretender)
Alpha males, the most in-demand men are born leaders. They are not easily attracted and it's difficult to win their hearts. Power is a natural trait in them that they can't suppress; they like to take the charge, everywhere (from the boardroom to bedroom). They love challenges but doesn't like to be competitive in a love affair. They take actions and put effort into things and that's usually really attractive to certain women, for many reasons.
On the other hand, a pretender alpha who always poses to be affectionate and sharp, he's domineering and controlling. Such men are hard to judge. So, if you spotted them, you must be avoided to the greatest extent! (See 8 Types of Guys you Should Avoid Dating). They aren't alphas, they are the pretenders who only talk and never act. Now that you know how to identify the true one, let's get into some tips on how to date an Alpha male.
Always look your best
Alpha males don't like a woman with unnatural hair hue, styles and cuts. They have no interested in tattooed women. Beauty, to them, is everything natural. Also, they have an eye for great personality. The way you walk, talk and behave with others also matters. Go to the gym, get fit and join grooming sessions, and become a lady with class, to attract an alpha male.
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Pump up the femininity
The only way to attract alpha male is to be elegantly feminine. He's not looking for a woman to battle with, so being muscular won't help. You need to be strong rather than well-built in order to attract an alpha. Eat healthy, live clean and look natural. Your natural softness, elegance and the femininity are what they look for.
Be Confident and Humble
An alpha always falls for pretty and confident women, who know the importance of their feminine charm. So, always feel confident enough to make good conversations with them. When you have their attention, it's important that you keep calm and don't run into risky situations that put you into the same league of desperate women, who are chasing them like crazy heads. The journey from grabbing their attention to winning their heart is not an easy one. You'll have to take every step wisely!
Be a good listener and supporter
Alpha male hate being neglected or half-heard. They fall for a woman who listens to them and supports them. When he talks, don't just hear, but listen. Show your engagement and don't pretend if you don't know something. Rather, ask something which you don't understand. They'll be happy to satiate your curiosity. Showing real interest in an alpha male will make him fall in love faster.
Encourage him with praises
For alpha males, the biggest form of appreciation is an encouragement. If you encourage him with all honesty, he's more likely to take you seriously. They get flooded with compliments, so encouragement will help you stand out, and create a special place in their hearts. Instead of praising the size of his apartment or car, consider talking about his lifestyle or how well-maintained they keep their cars.
Show that you enjoy his company
Alpha males rarely get the time to hang out with someone, and if they choose you, make sure you comfort them by enjoying their company to the fullest. It won't take a lot because they are naturally interesting. So have a great conversation, laugh and let him see how much you enjoy him.
Something you need to know
Alpha males don't like a lot of emotional drama or psychological breakdowns because they feel they don't have enough time to deal with all that. They want positive women, who are not too clingy or needy physically because they enjoy living in their private space. They can be really possessive, protective and aggressive at times, so be mindful of that and set your own boundaries.